Iraqi Children's Shoe Project, Valentine's Day 2006
A dedicated, grassroots group of nearly 30 volunteers
came together on Valentine’s Day to conduct an experiment
in nonviolence at the U.S. Senate. We gathered
100 pairs of children’s shoes—one pair for each U.S.
Senator—to represent the children who are suffering
and dying in Iraq. Then we brought shoes and a letter to
each Senate office. There we issued a call to conscience,
asking them to consider what the war and occupation
are doing to these children, and to do what they can to
end the warfare and bring the troops home. The group
was sponsored by Arlingtonians for Peace, Northern Virginians
for Peace, Codepink, and the D.C. Antiwar Network,
and included a number of Friends from Bethesda
FM, FMW, and Langley Hill FM.
The day began with a training session. The Friends
Committee on National Legislation was kind enough to
let us use their conference room for this training, and
FCNL staffer Mary Trotochoud spoke at the end of the
training about her time in Baghdad and her impressions
of the children there. She also described a wonderful
shoe project she and her husband Rick had done with
the kids. Several volunteers used this story in their approach
to the Senators
No appointments had been set up in advance with the
individual Senate staffs—we were overwhelmed by the
kind of logistics this would require, and also felt that our
action was different—a calling to account of every Senator
on one day. Several volunteers felt some frustration
over this approach, especially as the Senate offices were
fully prepared to turn them away. Virginia Harris (FMW)
writes: “Walter and I visited seven Senate offices. Neither
of us sensed much interest, just an attitude of “Oh,
another constituent with a cause to push. Sigh.”
Others expressed cautious optimism that those staffers
they did engage were able to hear our message.
Najla Drooby (LHFM) writes: “It was like talking to
teenagers, they look like they are not listening but they
actually are hearing you.”
Several volunteers felt they were able to make an
emotional connection with various staff members. For
example, Katrina Mason (BFM) reports: “The legislative
director at Senator Akaka’s office took a look at the
two pairs of shoes I had set on my briefcase, sort of
sucked in a breath and said, ‘They look like they’re about
a (size) 4.’ She explained that she has a 19-month old
daughter, and she kept looking at the shoes while [Susan
Lepper, FMW] made the points about what’s happening
to Iraqi children.”
We’d warned volunteers that they were likely to get
any number of defensive statements from the staffers,
who would be eager to justify their Senator’s actions.
And, indeed, they did. Here’s the experience of Laura
Nell Obaugh (FMW): “We spoke with an aide who had
served in Iraq in the Air Force. He initially recounted
what ‘we’ have done for the people of Iraq. I requested
permission to ask a candid question: ‘What have we
done for the people of Iraq?’ He proceeded to speak of
the horrors of Saddam Hussein’s regime. He said that
nothing even close to these atrocities had happened in
200-300 years in this country, and I responded simply:
‘Not even the lynchings?’”
Najla Drooby had a similar discussion in Sen. John
Warner’s office: “Warner’s L.A. told us he was sorry
for the kids who were at the wrong place at the wrong
time. I said we are at the wrong place at the wrong time
and that Iraq is the children’s home after all. The aide
blushed, but we saw him reading the letter as he walked
back to his office.”
Several volunteers noticed that they seemed to be
better treated by Republicans than Democrats (with outstanding
exceptions in the offices of Russ Feingold, Barbara
Boxer—whose aide came out of a meeting to meet
with us—and Ted Kennedy). Volunteer Barbara Nash,
a Maryland resident who had campaigned for Paul
Sarbanes, became irritated by this pattern. She and fellow
volunteer Jessica Kaplan returned to Sarbanes’ office
a second time, mentioned this pattern, and insisted
that they be allowed to meet with a staffer. They got to
see Sarbanes’ Chief of Staff.
Several volunteers reported how this project affected
them personally. Marian Thompson (FMW) writes: “The
project touched me more deeply than I had realized.
Although we targeted the senators, perhaps the message
was like Cheney’s buckshot–it reached everyone
in the vicinity.”
Bill Young, who wrote up the Q&A matter and pro-vided
massive support for this project, wrote: “For everyone
who was touched by the event, it helped to change
the focus of the discussion from geopolitical abstractions
about democracy and insurgency to the suffering
of real people.”
Submitted by Debby Churchman, FMW
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