Baltimore, Homewood
(Chesapeake Quarterly Meeting)
- Interchange, Winter 2010
- Interchange, Fall 2009
- Spiritual State of Our Meeting - 2008
- Interchange, Winter 2009
- Interchange, Fall 2008
- Interchange, Spring 2008
- Spiritual State of Our Meeting - 2006
- Interchange, Spring 2007
- Interchange, Fall 2006
- Spiritual State of Our Meeting - 2005
- FUM Policy Concern
- Spiritual State of Our Meeting - 2004
- Interchange, December 2004
- Interchange, September 2004
- Interchange, May 2004
- Spiritual State of Our Meeting - 2003
| Mailing address: |
3107 North Charles Street, Baltimore, MD
21218
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| Meeting place address: |
Same as above
[Wheelchair accessible] [Hearing assistance system available][maps]
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| Telephone: |
(410) 235-4438-Meeting Office telephone
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| Web site: |
http://www.homewoodfriends.org/
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| First Day schedule: |
Meeting for Worship: 10:30 a.m.; First Day
School: 10:50 a.m.
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| Business Meeting schedule: |
Third First Day of the month, 12:15 p.m.
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| Travel directions: |
On North Charles Street directly across from
the Baltimore Museum of Art Drive, and John Hopkins University,
Homewood Campus.
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| Clerk: |
Mina Brunyate; |
| Assistant Clerk: |
Claire Twose |
| Treasurer: |
Teresa Dutton; |
| Ministry & Worship: |
Kevin-Douglas Olive; |
| Stewardship & Finance: |
Corry Royer
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Interchange - Winter 2010
Since 9/11/2001, our Peace & Social Witness committee
has kept a Vigil for Peace in front of our Meeting House
every Friday evening from 5 to 6 pm. Please join in at any
time during the hour.
Interchange, Fall 2009
Cherished memories of Miriam Green were shared on
Saturday, May 31 at a well-attended gathering for worship
among family and friends for our distinguished and
departed Friend. Miriam will be remembered for all of her
diligent work and attention in our community.
On June 14 Clearness and Counsel held the third annual
worship sharing on Parent Loss. Although a small number
attended, the amount of healing and depth of sharing
is considered significant enough to make this an annual
tradition. We have found that holding the event between
Mother’s Day and Father’s Day is best.
On June 20 Charlotte Kennisson, one of our youngest
fundraisers, organized a talent show which raised $1180
to benefit our Solar Panel Fund. (See last issue for details
for the Solar Panel Project.) This is the second year that
Charlotte has held a talent show showcasing the Meeting
community’s many talents with proceeds supporting the
Homewood’s interests. We look forward to more from this
industrious and inspired associate member. She is truly a
great future Quaker activist in the making.
The highlight to the end of our summer, conceived and organized
by longtime member Megan Shook, was a charity
flea market held on the sunny morning of August 29. Signs
posted announced free household items for a donation to
a local shelter, Heart’s Place. The shelter’s representatives
were on hand to collect donations for the items and hand
out literature. They raised more than $500. Also on hand
were representatives from the Solar Panel Fund who were
selling donated baked goods and distributing literature and
answering questions. They raised more than $60. The event
produced many different outcomes. It gave Homewood
members and attenders the opportunity to reorganize their
homes. It gave the neighboring residents and students a
chance to see Friends in service. All around it was reported
to be a very positive experience for everyone involved and
plans are already in place to repeat it next year.
Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2008
Dearest Friends in Baltimore Yearly Meeting and beyond:
We write to you, grateful of the blessings that we have in our lives, and yet grieving the loss of our longtime member and friend, Miriam Green. Miriam was a devoted Friend who was active at both Homewood and in Baltimore Yearly Meeting.
Homewood Friends continue to be faithful in our walk in the Light. We meet regularly for worship on Sundays at 10:30 a.m., dutifully hold our meetings for business and educate ourselves and our children in the manner of Friends.
Without program, we base our worship in the Spirit and in Love. We seek to let the Light search us, showing us the Way, opening our awareness of self and our world. We rely upon the living silence to help us center. While attendance has decreased to an average of 30 attenders, worship at Homewood seems increasingly grounded and vocal ministry seems to lead to a deepening of the silence that binds us together. Our large meeting room remains a blessing and a challenge. This year, we decided to angle our benches to facilitate our sense of communal worship. After years of struggle, unity around moving the benches was easily reached. We continue to be open to leadings that will help us improve the quality and accessibility of our meetings for worship. We were reminded of the importance of permitting adequate time at the close of meeting for Friends to shake hands, signifying our acknowledgement of each other.
As worship is the center of our spiritual life together, our committees and Meeting for Business help us to test and season our leadings in order to practice our faith publicly. Our meetings for business are held in worshipful silence. We seek to include increasing amounts of silence between business items. At the beginning of each business meeting we allow time for worship-sharing on the month’s queries.
Our committees help knit the meeting community and help newcomers know who is doing the work of the Meeting. Committees provide a way of giving back to the community, even though they are frequently perceived as merely “work.” We are reminded of the importance of being led to do community work, and that different people enjoy and are fit for different kids of committee work. Without guidance and support from the Spirit, fatigue can set in and result in an experience of Homewood as drudgery rather than fulfillment, with unwanted obligations rather than service. Our committee structure is based from a time when our attendance and active participation by members was larger. It is difficult to find Friends willing to serve on the committees that we have. At our worship-sharing session we were encouraged to re-think the structures of our Meeting—to acknowledge the smaller Meeting we have become. Is there another, simpler way to proceed and get the work of the Meeting accomplished? We recall that there are other ways than committees to give to the Meeting. We as a community need to make sure that all leadings are nurtured and seasoned, even if they don’t fit into our committee structure.
One way of giving to the Meeting is through monetary contributions. Financially, our giving is down. Robinne Gray came to visit us and speak to us after worship one Sunday regarding financial contributions to our Quaker communities. Friends spoke about various ways they share in the life of the Meeting financially (scheduled direct bill pay, budgeting for the Meeting) as well as their sense of obligation to financially support Homewood not as a “left over” item after all their bills are paid, but rather as one of their bills that must be paid as a way of thanking the Meeting for all that it gives to their families.
Our adult religious education has been revitalized by one Friend with a clear leading. Adult education sessions have been held all but one Sunday morning per month. We now have an active program that has deepened the quality of our meetings for worship. In April, the Religious Education Committee sponsored a Catoctin weekend—a time of fun and bonding—one that probably will be repeated next year. While we currently do not have a program for middle and high school age Friends, some have migrated to Stony Run, where there is strength in numbers. We are glad to know that our older children are growing as Young Friends with our friends up the street. We are cognizant of a wonderful opportunity to rebuild our First Day school program, with a large group of 3 to 5 year olds in our nursery. Also from a leading of a Friend, Ministry & Worship sponsored a lovingly received dinner for parents of young children including adult discussion and child care. We hope that this will spark a new conversation about what we want as parents, and as a Meeting, for our children.
Homewood provides a welcoming and supportive community to most. We must continue to be mindful about how we are perceived by newcomers and to be open. To some, the Homewood community is “home.” To others, it is an “oasis,” not quite where they feel can root themselves, but where they feel called to be for a time.
As we learn more about ourselves and what it means to be a community, we continue to realize the truth of the Quaker theological stance that “faith without works is dead.” (James 2:14-26). Spirit-led works, to us, come in many forms, typically as activism and social causes, but also Friends are called to certain professions or other ministries. Homewood represents itself in the world primarily through the work of individuals trying to live their lives according to Quaker principles and following their leadings. These leadings often produce work that lasts for years and involves us individually, though not often corporately. While there are Friends who have expressed a desire for our meeting to take up a cause behind which we could rally, we understand that such a cause must come from a leading. We actively support leadings of others such as our support of collecting food for VIVA House. Our Peace & Social Witness committee has dwindled to a handful of members which concerns several in our meeting and doesn’t have the clarity of focus that some Friends would prefer. We, as a Meeting, need to discern further the role of the committee. We also need to consider how we recognize our own gifts and leadings and how we approach the Meeting with them. The Meeting would do well to actively call out and nurture Friends who seem to have a leading or calling. We continue to support social concerns (such as Stan Becker’s concern on rapid population growth), but we have Friends who are living out their calls to ministry and service without support committees, and whose work is sometimes unknown to the larger community, or is known in other Quaker communities but not ours. This can leave Friends feeling isolated and unsupported in their work, even if the Meeting is in all actuality in solidarity with them. Additionally, some would like to see even more on a social and activist level, but also in a spiritual context such as Bible study, spiritual friendships or a larger group joining the Yearly Meeting’s Spiritual Formation program.
In conclusion, our numbers are little changed and our worship seems deeper. The Meeting gained two members through convincement, two through transfer, and two associate members by parental request. One member was reclassified and two died during 2008, thus membership stands at 143 adults and associates.
A revitalized adult education program has invited us into a serious exploration of the experiential religion of early Friends. Concern about lack of a vital corporate witness in the world has been revealed. There opens a possibility for nurturing families of young children and growing our meeting with them. There are new opportunities for fellowship, community and spiritual growth. Could it be that we are rebuilding and strengthening our foundation on a solid rock, and that which our hearts desire will come not through our will but through the movement of the Spirit? There is work to do, and if we are faithful, we will see the fruits of our faith in time.
Interchange - Winter 2009
Homewood Friends have decided to install solar panels on the Meeting House roof. While our building is quite large, both the orientation and size of the roof make it an excellent site for solar. With the conservation program that we already have in place and the installation of solar panels, we estimate that 90% or more of our needs for electricity will be met and have the prospect of selling energy to the grid at times during the year. We are in the process of researching the specific technologies available,
contractors, and financing arrangements. If other Meetings have experience with this type of project or are interested in learning more about what Homewood is doing, please contact Rachael Neill via homewoodfriends@verizon.net or the Meeting office phone, (410) 235-4438.
Homewood spent last winter and spring preparing for a Young Friends Conference by examining and revising our building use policies and guidelines and preparing a handbook for use by Young Friends and FAPs. We were very pleased to host a large, energetic, and happy group of Young Friends over the Thanksgiving weekend and to share Meeting for Worship with them just prior to their departure home. Approximately eighty Young Friends and FAPs attended!
We have revitalized the Adult Education program this year and now meet three First Days per month prior to Meeting for Worship. A strong core of Friends has met monthly for Experiment with Light sessions, based upon the work of British Friend Rex Ambler. Participants have found these sessions to be spiritually revitalizing and to give them more insight into the thought and practice
of early Friends. We have also been exploring the Psychology of Salvation, authored by our own George Amoss. Other sessions have used the revised Faith and Practice and Pendle Hill pamphlets for meditation, worship,
and discussion
Interchange - Fall 2008
The Ministry and Worship Committee introduced a process
for wider participation by members and attenders
in the process of preparing the 2008 annual State of
the Meeting report. Thinking anew about the process
of gathering input for this important annual report was
stimulated by the experience of some members of the
Committee with an organizational development philosophy
called Appreciative Inquiry. The committee re-
contextualized some principles of Appreciative Inquiry
within the framework of our spiritual, religious, and
social community. The event they planned was called
a Listening Session. Here is how it worked.
Friends gathered for Meeting for Worship at our normal
time of 10:30 AM. Meeting was broken after 30 minutes.
Friends were asked to consider and, as moved, respond
to three questions. What draws you to Homewood? How
are you sustained spiritually at Homewood? What is
your vision for Homewood? As is customary in Meeting
for Business, Friends spoke out of the silence after being
recognized by our clerk, Mina Brunyate. Members of
the Ministry and Worship Committee recorded messages.
Sixty six Friends of diverse ages and interests
participated. With difficulty, the session adjourned after
a little over an hour and Friends shared a special meal
together.
Subsequently, the Ministry and Worship Committee
held the statements of the listening session in the Light.
The committee assessed how the Spirit moves among
us, identifying ways in which we are faithful and areas
where we still need to labor. Friends agreed that it was
a process that engaged the community and allowed us
to create a deeper, more reflective, and more useful
report.
Interchange - Spring 2008
We celebrated Rosetta Graham’s 50th anniversary as a convinced Friend with cake and messages of gratitude at simple lunch this summer. Known to Friends for her work with children who are victimized by violence, we are blessed to have Rosetta in our midst.
At the end of September, we hosted a celebration and farewell party for four stalwarts of our community. Anne and David Greene as well as Miriam Green have all recently moved to Friends House in Sandy Spring while Louise Williams has moved to Broadmead. Their contributions to our Meeting and service to the community are far too many to tell here. We will miss them terribly but are reassured to know that they are not far.
We were fortunate to have been chosen to host the FGC Traveling Ministries Committee who held their meetings the second weekend of January, 2008. In exchange
for hosting the committee, our Meeting gained the benefit of their wisdom and insights into how we might strengthen the Meeting community.
Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2006
In the past year, Homewood Friends Meeting has found spiritual strength in its weekly Meetings for Worship, as well as other activities which bring members and attenders of the Meeting together as a community. These experiences leave some Friends looking for even more such opportunities and a greater sense of community. Decision-making using Quaker process has also been perceived as a strength, despite friction among members over some decisions. In the view of the dozen or so who responded to the survey circulated by Ministry & Worship, the spiritual state of the Meeting is healthy, with worship functioning as a core and a high point. Others in our community find our spiritual condition to be more mixed.
In 2006 about 20 Friends regularly attended Meeting for Worship with a Concern for Business and 69 provided financial support for the Meeting. Currently we have a membership of 115, plus 25 associate members. An average of forty people are present in Meeting for Worship on most first days. The membership changed in 2006 as follows:
- Births: Lydia Hawley-Brillante was born to Robin Brillante and Caleb Hawley
- New members: Meri Robie-Craven and Ann Walker became members by convincement.
- Transfers of Membership: Brad Ebersole transferred his membership in the Religious Society of Friends from Homewood to Baton Rouge Monthly Meeting. Janice Hamilton transferred her membership from Fort Collins, Colorado, to Homewood.
- Deaths: Erick Hoopes.
- There were no marriages under the care of the meeting.
We continue the practice of unprogrammed Quaker worship, at 10:30 am on the first day of the week. Children in grades K-12 leave at 10:50 for Religious Education, which includes art, plays and yoga as well as instruction in Quaker faith and practice. Meeting for Worship continues to be an opportunity for Friends to wait upon the Divine, and some meetings have been covered in the Spirit. Rarely do more than three Friends offer vocal ministry at any one meeting, and generally those who speak seem to be faithful to their leadings. Vocal ministry reflects the diversity of faith in our meeting; the Bible and Jesus are regularly mentioned, though members vary in their beliefs on the nature and existence of the Divine. For Homewood Friends Meeting, this diversity of faith is a great asset.

In response to Ministry & Worship’s rhetorical question in the 2005 Spiritual State of the Meeting Report, asking whether unprogrammed worship was still valuable to Friends given the number of Friends arriving later or who attend only sporadically, Friends expressed that indeed the unprogrammed worship continues to be what appeals to many who visit and ultimately stay with us. Still, Friends continue to arrive late—even very late—each week. We have not yet arrived at a way to have all Friends worshipping together regularly, on time, or for as much as an hour each week.
Although many feel deeply satisfied with Homewood’s worship, some have expressed a need for enhancements, such as additional meeting times, improving the Meeting Room’s acoustics, making the room less formal, encouraging timely arrival and preparation for worship, and increasing attendance at Monthly Meeting for Business. These various needs present the Meeting with considerable challenges.
We continue to search for ways for Friends to share their spiritual insights outside of weekly worship. Many of our members are actively connected to wider communities of Friends, including Quarterly, Interim, and Yearly Meetings and their committees; Friends General Conference; and Friends for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Queer Concerns.
Friends report that commitments often leave them unable to come early or stay long after worship. Meeting events other than Meeting for Worship that Friends find meaningful include the peace vigils, committee work, Meeting for Worship with a Concern for Business, the First Day School plays, and the Listening Project, which Peace and Social Witness undertook in the spring. This year the Meeting has not offered Quakerism 101, as way has not yet opened. Some Friends who have been participating in Spiritual Formation hold regular book discussions that are open to all members and attenders. Some members and attenders envision an even richer sense of spiritual community with greater opportunities for individuals and families to get to know each other through discussion groups, spiritual friendships, guest speakers and other activities inside and outside of Meeting. Some Friends have yearned for a greater sense of spiritual connectedness within the Meeting even as Meeting for Worship has been a source of spiritual strength.
Having laid down the Advancement and Outreach Committee, Homewood is trying to find ways to welcome those visiting our Meeting. The Meeting’s brief explanation of unprogrammed worship is now provided on single sheets of paper placed on the benches. Instead of singling out newcomers during introductions, we have experimented with standing in a circle after closing meeting and having all present introduce themselves. This experiment has been met with mixed reactions and will be revisited. Young Adult Friends (YAF) continues to attract new faces and contribute to the Meeting’s vitality.
Homewood Friends Meeting is an energetic Meeting that welcomes diversity in its many forms—age, experience, lifestyle, commitments, thought, belief system, sexual orientation, culture. This diversity contributes to the Meeting’s vitality and provides many choices for involvement. At the same time, it presents challenges to addressing the wide range of expectations of members and attenders while forming a single cohesive community with united purpose. We trust that the love and care of members and attenders will sustain us as we continue to grow in the Light.
Respectfully submitted,
The Ministry and Worship Committee 2006-2007
Interchange - Spring 2007
Two members of our Meeting were selected for
awards recently. Vincent (Vinny) DeMarco received
the Consumer Health Advocate of the Year Award from
Families USA Health Action in January, 2007. This
award to Vinny recognizes his years of dedication and
outstanding contributions on behalf of the nation’s health
care consumers. Barbara Bezdek was honored by the
University of Maryland Baltimore as its Public Servant
of the Year for 2006. This award is given to an employee
who exhibits exemplary work and commitment
to public service. Barbara is a founder and chair of Faith
Fund, Inc., a faith-based community development foundation.
We are deeply grateful for the loving leadership and
guidance of Beth Edelstein, who completed four years
of service as our presiding clerk in July, 2006. We are
appreciative of Mina Brunyate, who assumed the clerkship
in September, 2006.
Interchange - Fall 2006
Our meeting is a member of the Baltimore Regional Initiative Developing Genuine Equality (BRIDGE). BRIDGE brings together area congregations and other groups to give voice to and stimulate action on issues of importance to the life and spirit of the city and surrounding areas such as housing, crime and violence, and education. Along with Baltimore, Stony Run, we completed an initial phase of congregational community building called Inreach, a process that engaged ten trained volunteers in listening sessions with more than 60 members and attenders over the course of three months. It was a rich and interesting experience for both interviewers and interviewees that deepened existing friendships and built new relationships. We realized how much good work in the community we do as individuals in both professional and volunteer service, but also noted obstacles that prevent us from doing more good work as a community of Friends. While the summer has been a hiatus from the project, we plan to build upon what we have learned about one another’s gifts and passions in the coming year as we work with the BRIDGE organization in outreach projects.
Some members of our Meeting are conducting interviews with men who were conscientious objectors in World War II. Their efforts are part of a larger project to publish a volume of the stories of these men that explores how they came to, and lived through, this difficult decision and its consequences and impact on their lives. The working title of the book is Men of Peace.
In July, we celebrated the 50th anniversary of our beloved member Rosetta Graham’s convincement toward and entry into the Religious Society of Friends. Rosetta has worked tirelessly for many years to improve the lives of children, especially those impacted by the violent death of a family member. She is also well known for her work with the Fellowship of Friends of African Descent.
Recent Membership Changes: Meri Robie-Craven (new member). Barbara Hamilton (transfer of membership from Fort Collins Friends Meeting). Brad Ebersole (transfer of membership to Baton Rouge Friends Meeting).
Spiritual State of the Meeting Report - 2005
Greetings to Friends!
We continued this year to find spiritual refreshment together in worship, aware that many among us differently experience, and value, spoken messages and silence. Attendance each first day has varied from 45 to 70 people. We have been blessed with numerous visitors throughout the year. It has not been uncommon to have up to a dozen visitors and there is often no fewer than 2 or 3. While some have been traveling Friends, many are new to Friends, and therefore new to Friends worship. Our location near Hopkins and the revitalization of surrounding neighborhoods has frequently brought in those who say they pass by frequently and decided to visit. A number of these visitors have become enthusiastic regular attenders and a few have become members.
There are trends that are of concern to some, though not all, in the meeting. At the called time for meeting to begin, there are often only a dozen in the meeting room; the number doubles by 10:40 a.m., and sometimes doubles again by 11 a.m. It is not apparent why we do not gather as a community and settle into worship at 10:30 – is it too early? Do Friends find 60 minutes too long to sit or to worship? There are a few Friends who have expressed this. Is the collective aspect of Quaker worship waning in significance to Homewood community members? If so, what does that mean for the health or relevance of unprogrammed Quaker worship in the Homewood community? Additionally, weekly attendance by the same Friends appears not to be the norm. Our meeting space continues to be a challenge for some Friends to feel physically connected to one another in meeting for worship, while others appreciate the freedom to sit somewhat distant from other Friends. The acoustics for our meeting room remain difficult; we have yet to find a way forward given the information provided by the Meeting’s hired experts that the arrangement of our benches will have little if any acoustical effects. The very discussion of the benches has been historically contentious, and still is, thus it is one that we are not currently addressing.
Perhaps influenced by some of the above concerns, there have been requests for a more gathered spiritual community. Friends have communicated their desires through vocal ministry, in casual conversation and via letters to Ministry & Worship. The concerns have been brought not just from some long-time members and attenders of the meeting, but also by some of the newer Friends. We have a strong Young Adult Friends group that provides a sense of community and friendship to roughly a dozen or so Homewood Friends with visits by members of Stony Run Friends. Friends are gathering in Friendly 8s. Some women have found community in the Yearly Meeting women’s retreat. Several of our members are active together in BRIDGE. Some members are gathering in a group “Discerning a Quaker response to these times.” The call by some Friends for more deliberate attention to creating a larger, more inclusive sense of community and spiritual friendship has created its own tension that we have addressed through threshing sessions and worship sharing, and to which we are still attending through meetings for reconciliation. There are Friends who feel judged. There are apparent divisions that we are seeking to address and hurt feelings we are seeking to heal together. We are honestly asking each other what is it that we hold as precious and what threatens our ideas and notions about the Homewood Quaker community. What can we release and let change? What must remain constant? Additionally, how do we speak plainly to one another without giving and taking offense? As one Friend has said “we are here working on these issues because we love each other.” Indeed, that love and sense of community in balance with regard for each individual is what we seek to build here.

In Second Month 2005 we had an excellent and well-attended workshop from FGC’s Advancement & Outreach and Traveling Ministries committees. Many ideas on how to improve our community (inreach) and let others know about Homewood (outreach) were generated. However, we have had poor follow-up on these ideas. Ministry & Worship has determined manner and means of welcoming newcomers requires attention, and our meetings for worship might be more welcoming to strangers to the manner of Friends. We are experimenting as a meeting on various ways to open and close meeting for worship, drawing on the practices of other Friends meetings in Baltimore Yearly Meeting. We are working on a visitor’s packet as well as brochures on silent and vocal ministry that we would provide on the benches.
Meetings for Business. Our meetings for business are not attended regularly by our all of our members, but we do have a fairly regular attendance of a couple dozen Friends. We have considered various issues pertaining to our meetings for worship and collective life, wider Friends concerns, and in-house issues such as our physical plant. Friends are aware of our minuted commitment to leave a lighter footprint on the Earth, and therefore are committing to extensive renovations to our water and air heating systems as well as insulating our large meeting room. The number of Homewood member households who made financial contributions has decreased this year.
Peace & Social Witness continues to faithfully maintain weekly vigils against the US war in Iraq in front of our meeting house, though this vigil has been quite sparsely attended by Homewood members. Peace & Social Witness also sought the Meeting’s sponsorship and participation in Eyes Wide Open held across the way at Johns Hopkins University. Numerous Meeting members participated with great energy and commitment of faith and time to bring the AFSC’s Eyes Wide Open exhibit to Baltimore, to train and to work as volunteers in that reflection and witness in September. Homewood hosted the interfaith service of remembrance which opened the weekend’s numerous events.
As we face our challenges together, we rejoice in the blessings that we do have. Even though we are experiencing growing pains, we have each other and we are Loved.
FUM Policy Concern
Baltimore Homewood
Friends Minute on Relations with Friends United Meeting
Specially Called Meeting for Worship with Concern for
Business July 25,2004
Homewood Friends
Meeting has made a concerted effort to include Friends of all sexual orientations
in the full life of the meeting. We therefore stand in opposition to the
practices and policies of Friends United Meeting that discriminate against
people because of their sexual orientation and same-sex commitments. In
particular we found the way that FUM handled
the situation with Lamar Matthew very
hurtful. That FUM did not honor his appointment as worship group leader leads
us to ask whether our relationship with FUM expresses our spiritual insights
and gifts or is primarily a financial one.
Even so we are not clear that full
separation is the right action. We urge formal engagement not schism. We need
to help create safe places for discussions of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender issues to take place among members of
FUM.
We therefore call on Baltimore
Yearly Meeting to create and fund forums or interest groups around the topic of
gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender rights in FUM. Possible forums include
Yearly Meeting, Friends General Conference or the FUM Triennial. We recommend
dialogue with those Friends meetings and churches in FUM open to doing so.
Homewood Meeting offers to be actively involved with this work. The burden
should not be on gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Friends to do this
themselves.
Homewood Meeting strongly expresses
its support for not giving financial support to any organization that
discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation, even as we continue active
dialog with the members of that organization. We ask that BYM offer FUM financial support earmarked for
their use solely in supporting dialog about gay, lesbian, bisexual and
transgender issues.
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